The last time I finished my blog like this.:
So... When you get everything that you don't want and when you look to the sky and ask: Why???? Then remember this blog: Because you have to learn, and you have to be stronger than you were before.
(((((... Or... you are not on the right path, and life wants you to put you back where you have to be, but this is another blog post topic 🙂 ))))
And now I want to explain what I meant. But now I don't want to write anything new. I want to share a part of my book. The reason is: that I was thinking that what is the best way to explain this, but I can't do better than share that part.
So...
From the Swan book:
‘And what do we have to do to change?’
‘Change. Leave bad habits, follow your feelings, no matter how scary they are. Do your job, no matter how unbelievable or impossible it seems. You can do anything if you want it hard enough. Of course, by this I don’t mean that you should abandon everything, that you shouldn’t work, or only following your feelings. No. That’s not the solution. You need to work, since that also forms and shapes you. Through your jobs you work off what you have to, the causes and debts from the past. The other very simple reason is that until you do what you have to, what really is your job, your task, until you receive your due rewards, so-called payments – you have to sustain yourselves somehow. Oh, how there are many examples for this, too. Very famous people… mostly musicians, actors, or sportsmen, talking about how they started out from nothing, being waiters, shop assistants, and about how they worked hard. But while other people went home after work to lie down to sleep, they fought for their dreams, what they felt they had to achieve. And when they did, they received the awaited good. Since then they live in better conditions, like they wanted to. They still work, since they still have tasks, but they have easier lives, since their passion sustains their lives. Believe me, it’s worth working for the “Big Boss.” Those who do that, meaning that they do what they feel they have to, can lead a much easier, happier and fearless life. Just research these people. Take a look at where they came from, what they achieved and who they are. You will be surprised. And in what aspect were they more? Better than the others? Only that they dared to overcome their fears, that they believed in themselves and their dreams, even when everybody else told them that they were impossible or crazy. They were bold and brave, and if needed, they went against the world. They have shown that yes, it can be done. It can be done. They are the examples. Those should not be envied, but looked up to and followed. What does the ego say to this? “Oooh, this is impossible, I can’t do this, what if they laugh or make fun of me, I’d rather not, and anyway I’m too tired for this, and it’s easier and better to lie around all day than moving and actually doing something…” Essentially, everyone has the right to do this. This is free will. But you’ll have to endure the consequences, the hits dealt by life, since we’ll allow laziness only on the surface. The goal for you is to complete your task. In order for this to happen, you’ll receive more and more difficult tasks, so that you understand that you’ll come out better if you stay on your path, not just always resting. You’ll rest when it’s time.’
‘And what happens when I start what I feel to be the good choice? Will life be easier?’
‘No. This is why it’s important when you start. But that depends on you, too. You can do it when it’s easy, or when it’s really difficult. Just so that you can imagine: you can collect firewood in a light breeze, but in a storm as well. The point is the same, you want warmth in your home, and you need wood for it, but it is your choice when you do that. You have to know that the storm won’t stop just because you started collecting firewood. Because with that, you neither want or have to stop the storm, you only want warmth. So, if life is really hard already, and you start doing your job, the circumstances won’t change just because you started. Things will remain like that, so that you might learn that it’s not worth waiting and doubting, and that you have to do what you feel that you have to do, when you feel that you have to do it, and everything will be all right. Is that clear?’
I love this part 😊😍🙂
So... when things are happening, and you feel that is not, what you want, two things could happen:
you have to be stronger than you were before or...
you are not on our path, where you have to be, and Life wants to put you back in the right direction to the right way.
That is it. So.... when things are happening, and you ask, 'WHY??'... just think about it: 'Am I on the right way? If the answer is YES, then you have to be stronger than before. If the answer is NO... that is the reason then.
Be strong, be brave and do what you were born for. 😉🙂
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