A few days ago, someone asked me: Do you have a bucket list?
Of course, I have. And that is bigger than most people's😅😀, but I want to achieve them. All of them. The truth is, until now, I was a mum as a full-time job. That was my first and only task: I wanted to be a good mum. I wanted to give my kids everything that I could. ( Everything means time, love, joy, quality time, tablet, phone 😀 ... everything I could.) but now, because they don't need me full-time anymore, I can find myself and achieve everything on my list ( For example, driving a Ferrari 😀 or being a best-seller writer. going to university etc... ) because I have time myself now and can achieve everything I want. Even the craziest dreams, too.
And now you can say, 'It is easy because you know what you want.' Or you can say, 'That is okay, that is fine, we have to find ourselves, but it hurts so much because my kids don't need me as intensively as before, and I'm lost, I'm in pain.... my little babies... '
And you know what? I understand all of them because I feel them as well. But!!!!! I have a question for you, and I had it for myself, too: Which way would they be more proud of us? If we are crying all the time because we miss them or we miss that full-time mum life, or if we find ourselves and we can show them they can achieve everything, what do they want? What would make them more proud of us? If we want to go back to how it was, we would cry about it all the time, or if we show them that everything is possible, what we want. I chose the second one. I chose it because I think... I feel that is part of the good mum job. We spent time together. They got everything (time, love, joy, quality time, tablet, phone 😀 ... everything that I could give them.), and now it is time to show them that they can achieve everything that they want because if mum can do it, they can do it, too 😀
And what about if you haven't got this problem? What about the bucket list for you? Everything is the same. Find the most significant reason you would do everything to achieve your dreams on the bucket list. Reasons can be anything strong enough to keep you going on your way, especially when you want to give up. That reason has to be strong enough to keep you going and carry on.
Have dreams. Write them down on paper. Read them every day... or four times a week... I don't mind. Just read them as often as you can and achieve all of them. These are your dreams, and never give up your dreams!!!!!!!!
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